How to get girls frm orkut
- By india est
- Published 12/12/2007
How to get girls frm orkut
I hv noticed many times that girls on orkut start a small conversation through scraps,add you as friends and then after a day or two they stop scrapping and also replying to yr scraps.
They are INTERNET TIME WASTERS.
Plus geography is a killer when it comes to dating. Only date someone who lives within a 35 mile radius from you (Or is planning to move to your city). This is written in stone. Why? It's ineffecient.
You spend months or years talking online, than you meet face to face and realize - she realizes you are not her type physically. Or she meets someone in her town, falls in love with him, and you wasted all that time chatting.
Because until you met face to face(!); in person (!) you haven't passed physical attraction test. And until you pass the physical attraction test, nothing REALLLY starts.
So if you do use the internet, first of all she has to live in your town, secondly after four or five e-mails she has to be willing to meet for coffee. And at the end of a short coffee date you ask her for her home phone number to test her Interest Level. But if she is not ready after a few e-mails/scraps to meet in person, she is just an INTERNET TIME WASTER, and is not looking for a date, just to screw with people's brains online.
WHich is OK if you got no life. We are all part of the hypocricy...
wait 3 days before responding to her message. usually you wait 5 – 9 days to call but this is internet so you wait 3 days to message/scrap back. no chatting!
don’t give too much personal information on your profile.
have some real pics on your profile taken by a professional photographer. 3 pics on different locations is enough. one formal one wearing a suit.
keep the messages short, sweet and funny. you can tell if she is interested by how long her replies are. if she gives monosyllabic replies she is not interested. if she gives long replies and tries to help you, and plays along with your jokes, she is interested. but of course none of it counts until you meet face to face. you may not be her type physically. after 3 – 4 messages, you ask for her home phone number, but its ok for her to refuse, because she hasn’t met you in person yet. than you ask her to meet you for coffee. give her directions to the place and the phone number of the place in case she gets lost. you spend 30 minutes bantering with her, than you ask her for her home phone number again.
if after 4 – 5 messages she is not ready to meet in person, she is just an internet time waster. move on to a new adventure.
try to line up 2 – 3 consecutive coffee dates in a row with different girls from the internet in the same shop. this way you don’t waste your time getting there for just one girl.
HER INTERESTS usually you have to fish for that stuff. here you got that information right on her profile! dooh! but make sure you keep it funny and light, stay off the heavy subjects (politics, religion, sex, race)